Independence Day

on Jul 04 in General by

Today is the fourth of July, the day Americans like to call “Independence Day”. In the UK we refer to it as “Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish Day”, but it amounts to the same thing.

Today is the day that people all over the USA get together and set off fireworks in memory of Will Smith and Jeff Goldblum defeating the alien invasion of earth. That will teach them pesky aliens not to install Norton Anti-virus on their mothership.

In all seriousness it probably says quite a bit about the two nations that America uses fireworks to celebrate the founding of their government, whereas we use them to celebrate someone trying to blow ours up.

So today is Independence Day. But not in our house it isn’t. We are having our Independence Day on the eighth of July instead. And it doesn’t have anything to do with a bunch of men in wigs signing a bit of paper either. Our Independence Day revolves around a little girl taking her first steps through a big door.

On Tuesday Amy goes to school for the first time. She doesn’t start officially until September. But next week she goes in for the afternoon for a taster session.

It’s a big day for her, and for all of us. But she’s ready to make that big leap forward into the next era of childhood. In fact she’s been ready for quite a while now. And the emotions that that knowledge stirs up are the very definition of bittersweet.

A great man (me) once said “From the moment they are born parents have to start letting their children go”. And that’s true. But that doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to get a bit misty eyed about it though.

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16 Comments

  • Phil says:

    Are you sure you’re getting misty-eyed over your daughter’s first day of school? Or is it leftover from the iPod Touch incident?

  • James says:

    Congrats to your daughter. What a big day, indeed.

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  • I felt exactly the same when dudelet went off to the nursery class at the school around the corner. He went full time in January and has absolutely loved it. She will too!

    But I did have that weird pang on his first day. And I had it again yesterday when his first annual school report came back.

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  • Clair says:

    Good luck to the little’un!

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  • Arjan says:

    what a cool way of describing the first time of going to school.
    That she may have many independance days ahaid, remember that mist clears.
    Go buy a new shiny even fancier ipod and even thát mist will clear.

    Arjan’s last blog post..Smoking prohibited: 01-07-2008

  • Oli says:

    I still remember my first day at school. I had a great time. Apparently my mum was standing outside waving (and secretly crying a bit), but I didn’t notice at all, as I was so wrapped up in all the new activities.
    It was still really good to get home at the end of the first day though.

  • Rachael says:

    Lydia had her taster session yesterday – she was a bit wary when she left Neil and I, but off she pootled.
    She came back full of smiles and desperate to show us her new classroom.
    Our little lady is growing up – and yes, it’s bittersweet. It was touch too because we felt like we should’ve been old hands at the school lark by now – it was the school Joseph should’ve started at in 2006.
    But, we felt pleased and proud and melancholic all at the same time.
    Lydia just felt excited (although she was slightly confused at the fact that ‘Amy Hughes’ is going to school but a different one. She told me that Amy should come to her school, so if you can arrange that it’d be great…).
    A big day indeed. And I’m sure Amy will have a whale of a time.

  • Whit says:

    Not everyone had a wig, some of the younger men actually grew their hair out. Don’t they teach you anything over there.

    Good luck on the 8th.

    Whit’s last blog post..Sunday in a Sandbox

  • Gail says:

    My little one moves up into Year 1 in Sept and he says he has to so that the new kids coming in have nice teachers who don’t make school scary!

    Come to think of it I loved my first teacher…..do you think this is how it works? Suck them in, lull them into false security and then get out the scary guys!

    How’s the walking?

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  • Dan says:

    Phil – You saw right through me

    James – If she comes home that evning and hasn’t learned to read then there is going to be big trouble.

    (un)relaxeddad -She’ll love it after the first few days I’m sure. She goes to nursery already, but a private one as the school doesn’t have one attached.

    Clair – Thanks

    Arjan – i’ve got half an eye on an mp3 player that’s also a DAB radio, but I need a suitable period of mourning first

    Oli – Yes but Oli, you didn’t start school until you were 21 (a late developer apparently)

    Rachael – Lydia could always go to our school, they have places apparently and it would amuse me to see Neil walk her there.

    Whit – I wasn’t talking about head wigs. NOW who’s the ignorant one eh?

    Gail – The walking is going very badly indeed. Which definitely not good.

  • Nat says:

    I cried when The Boy headed out for the first day. In fact, it was a toss up between who cried more. I hope she loves it.

    What’s up with the walking?

    Nat’s last blog post..Don’t wait up for me…

  • NYCWD says:

    Ah, that is a big day indeed.

    Full day of school for her… full day of pub for you.

    I’m jealous.

    Oh, and Jeff Goldblum being in a successful movie that does not involve dinosaurs is the best reason for fireworks. Really.

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  • Dan says:

    Nat – A combination of no time and poor weather ha meant I’ve got very little walking done the last couple of weeks

    NYCWD – Pub? I’m bloody working.

    Dans last blog post..A moral man (unfortunately)

  • Henri says:

    Behind them educated wurds I’s get a sneaking spishion that you said something bad about the good ol’ U S of A. Y’all better take it back now. Nless y’all want another what you Brit’s l’call a thrashing I bleve. We’ll be passing through the neighorhood on our way to Iran and we’d be more than happy to drop off a can of whoopass.

    Yeeehaaaaw. Happy Birthday America.

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  • The Chick says:

    Kidlet going to school is such a big deal…..both wonderful and sad but so great.

    And I love the way you crazy Brits always make fun of our 4th of July….but I suppose you are entitled!

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  • Dan says:

    Henri -I’m sorry I didn’t quite get that. Do you speak English?

    The Chick – any day now we’ll be coming round and asking for our colony back.